Yea and awesome your daughter graduated s you

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Hey, I know you try your darnedest for your children! And, being a parent in this day and age is not easy, at the very least money-wise. It's a shame your ex gets away without having the pay alimony and/or child support - but now that last option is no option, 'cause your youngest is about to hit if not already 18, yes?



You deserve a hell of a lot more credit than you give yourself or most others give you. I know I don't know you, know you - but I don't believe you have ever given your children the short end of the stick. That's just a feeling I get; you may make mistakes and you may not get as much as you want, but you try and try hard. I don't know why that's not rewarded more so than a lot of other things.

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I myself am going through a lot of stress right now. My own mother is - not always the nicest of women. I know she's done much more me, but I feel I dissapointed her... Today she gave my a hypothetical question (first, let me say we had a big argument on Tuesday, in where I told her I felt she cheated me out of a college education), "what if I told you I felt cheated out of the beautiful daughter I wanted." I'm not sure what to make of her statements like that. She also said years ago, "if you were (my stepfather's) daughter, you'd be uglier..." Something along those lines, but I remember she said "...you'd be uglier." Yeah, I think she is dissapointed in how I look; I'm fat which equal ugly which equals her dissapointment and her sarcasm.

I just feel so sure of that, but she says she's not saying those things. She said that I am beautiful to her and she loves me; but, I can't help feel she allows Freudian Slips out when she gives me these hypothetical questions/answers. They hurt me; I'm not wanted.

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Anyhow, congratulations to your daughter! Please be well and take care of yourself.



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Congrats! It is a tough road to get them little buggers through school. If you managed to get her through all that without any real maladjustment, substance abuse, or major psych trauma, then bully for you! Don't listen to the nay-sayers!

And, God, why is your truck leaking carbon monoxide into the cab??? If it is the muffler, you may be able to do a temporary patch. Definitely not a good thing!

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Congratulations on surviving her high-school years. I know even with the best of home/life situations, sometimes you wonder, but you did good, and so did she!

Totally hear you on the car. I'm still carless, and the bus just SUCKS in this town, but ... Need to find you an old hilljack who can fix the exhaust with a couple beer cans and some duct tape so your truck will stop trying to poison you.

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Tell her I said congrats! I knew she would do it

And who has been going around saying you were unfit.

my ex. my sisters oh and my oldest

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Don't you love when people who have no room to talk do so?

And as far as I'm concerned no one can comment on parenting skills til they've raised a teenager themselves. You put in the time then I'll consider your opinion.

Your ex on the other hand doesn't count with that cause people who think they are god won't realize the mistake til long after the worms are feasting on what's left so why bother listening to hot air from em right .

If I could find one I would, I did have a guy named hippy who said he would do it he even baought the clamps for the can e was going to attach but for some reason he never came back...hmmm anyway, I'm not going to get up under there. maybe he will come back and do it for me so I don't have too. even the roomie with all the things I do for him you would think he would get him self under there and fix it, but nope. mister country boy don't want to get that dirty I think.

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it isthe muffle. it broke a long time time ago and it never bothered me until a few days ago where it is now coming up into the cab. Even worse it stings the eyes. It's horriable. But I need the ride to get back and forth so I am suffering with it until the income tax gets here and I can hopefully get something better. I so wish I still had Yazoo, at least that car worked and had the power to get up hills with out trying to kill me. You think Red is pissed off cause she knows I'm going to replace her? maybe that's why she's trying to kill me here...LOL

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